I have been bossy my entire life. I’m bossy in my business life as well as my personal one. I’m sure that plenty of people have called me bossy behind my back. They certainly have to my face. I know that I must not have liked It at the time but it never altered my life one bit nor did it give me much grief.
Sheryl Sandberg, Chief Marketing Officer of Facebook, has started a worldwide campaign through her Lean In organization to ban the word “bossy” when it comes to describing women because it has caused major career setbacks. Sandberg also said it deflates a young woman’s self esteem and discourages her from becoming a leader.
While I agree with Sandberg that calling someone bossy could be discouraging and hurtful, it should not be that painful for any woman.
This kind of thinking reminds me of the women I know who are afraid to walk Into a Louis Vuitton or Gucci store because they feel intimidated. That infuriates me because the sales staff are ordinary ladies who are taught to adopt a certain attitude. I tell friends to pretend they are the female version of Richard Gere in Pretty Woman. They have to demand that the retail staff suck up to them. It works every time.
My advice to women is to get a number of significant achievements under their belts before acting like a know-it-all. No one likes a smarty-pants. Once they have made their mark, then they can start asserting themselves. By the way, this is true for men too. Exercise common sense. You can’t go wrong.
Ever since I heard about Facebook buying WhatsApp a few weeks ago for billions of dollars, I really wanted to spell out this unbelievable story for you. Between some research on my part with business friends and a great story that is about to be published in Forbes, you will have enough of the facts to talk about it with your children and grandchildren
I doubt that when Jan Koum, 38 and Brian Acton, 42, founders of WhatsApp, started their company in 2009, they ever thought they would become billionaires just five years. But that’s exactly what happened when Facebook bought WhatsApp for $4 billion in cash, $12 billion in stock plus $3 billion in restricted shares.
WhatsApp is an instant message company that has handled 10 billion messages per day.
Koum was an engineer who moved from Ukraine to the U.S. with very little money. He will join the Facebook board and, after taxes, pocket $6.8 billion.
Acton was ex-Yahoo engineer who got turned down for jobs at Twitter and Facebook. He will make $3 billion after tax.
WhatsApp only generated $20 million in revenue but Zuckerberg believes this app is going to make him a lot of money.
Read the inside scoop from Forbes on WhatsApp by just clicking here.
For those of you who are not on Facebook, I wanted to share some of my photos. I consider them collectibles.
A friend posted this.
Former HWH staffer Meghan Dougherty visited with us recently. She is a wife, mommy of two, and author of a soon-to-be-published tween novel. Remember, you saw her here first.
The townhouses on East 62nd Street — all dressed up for next week!
Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz spoke at the 92 Street Y. We live in her district in Miami.
Dylan’s Candy Store getting ready for Chanukah.
The real Teri Garr wrote this message on a blackboard hanging in Georgio’s Country Grill on 9th Avenue at 53rd Street.
When we were in our 20s and 30s, no one was concerned about our work environment. We were just thrilled to get a paycheck.
Today, maturing digital companies in Silicon Valley, Seattle, and even New York, are literally building country clubs as offices in order to attract creative talent who are willing to work long hours.
Go to http://www.digidame.com to see the following stories with their full illustrations:
1) Facebook Intro’s a Smartphone
2) Kris Jenner Calls the Shots
3) Google Expands Alerts
Facebook’s New Smartphone
The decision makers at Facebook have discovered that more people use their mobile devices to post photos, write comments, and wish each other happy birthday than from computers. If that’s the case, Facebook wants to produce a smartphone that features their social network up close and personal.
I don’t know what came over me. I actually posted a Happy Birthday to William Oakley on his Facebook page when he has been dead for two years. For those of you who do not know this, Facebook lists the birthday of everyone you are connected to. Most Facebook members check that page every day and send wishes to everyone who has a birthday. It is conceivable that one person could receive hundreds of birthday wishes on his or her special day.
Okay, I did not read Sheryl Sandberg’s book Lean In about giving encouraging advice to woman in the workplace. Sandberg, the COO of Facebook, is getting great reviews just for addressing the issue that women are not getting the respect they deserve on the job. I totally agree, but not for the same reasons. I will read her book in the upcoming months, but I just know from all the reviews that she did not cover the viewpoint I have had for the last 46 years of my career.
Men are not the reason why women are second class citizens. Women have allowed themselves to take that place. Maybe it is a mother nature thing, but women are their own worst enemy. You can argue this point with me from now to the end of time, but I will stick to my opinion because of what I have seen over the years.
Passengers aboard the fire-damaged Carnival Triumph cruise ship set up a makeshift tent city on the vessel’s deck
A gal who used to work for me (decades ago), Leeann Lavin, just posted this on Facebook. “Listening to the updates on the stranded Carnival Cruise Line, Triumph, gives a whole new meaning to the name ‘poop deck.’ “
Facebook has had to face the death question 30 million times since its inception. Yes, 30 million users have died worldwide. Closer to home, 580,000 users died last year in the United States as compared to three million worldwide. Those statistics are being given out by sources close to Facebook.
Unbeknownst to many of us, Facebook actually has guidelines for pages belonging to the deceased. There is a whole story about it that you will find fascinating if you just press here. The reason why this topic is so interesting is because a social media platform like Facebook has its own postmortem rituals much like real life. Wait a minute, did I say that? Facebook to many people is real life or to many better than the life they have to face every day when they are offline.